Posted by: Michael Krahn (Aylmer EMMC - Ontario)
November 23, 2009 6:41:AM
Over the course of the recent church planting congress in Calgary, the clear emphasis was on building authentic community. There was nothing said about building a big church - quite the opposite in fact. Almost all of the sessions were about "one to one" and "one to few" ministry. There was no emphasis on "one to many".
I won't go so far as to say that "one to many" is an invalid model, but I will say that we as a North American church has failed miserably at "one to one" and "one to few" ministry.
Two questions:
1. Can you list one biblical and one practical reason why we keep trying to make our current churches larger?
2. How can we communicate the importance of "one to one" and "one to few" ministry?























Lawrence says:
January 12, 2010 - 10:58:AMGlencross Mennonite Church
Manitoba South
John says:
December 15, 2009 - 9:34:PMLeamington EMMC
Ontario
Michael says:
December 9, 2009 - 11:29:AMAylmer EMMC
Ontario
I am not saying "abandon one-to-many" ministry. I am saying that we seem to have put most of our eggs in that basket for a long time and it is an imbalance. Because of this imbalance people are prone to "bring a friend to church" so they can hear the gospel/get saved/hear about Jesus from the pastor/etc rather than being able to proclaim the gospel/assist in conversion/tell people about Jesus themselves.
It is this fundamental issue that I see as problematic in the modern mega-church. Its focal point is Pastor so-and-so who is often seen as a super-hero, sure-all, miracle-worker. Most Pastor so-and-so types gladly welcome this exaltation - or thrive on it. Not that that can't happen in a small church, but the larger the fanbase (usually) the larger the ego.
(Again, I'm not making judgements on Leamington because I haven't been there.)
When you mention multi-site vs. small, I see that we have miscommunicated here a bit. What I'm talking about could very well be multi-site. I think smaller groupings are something we need to try, but I'm not advocation numerous autonomous groupings. Sorry if I seemed to be saying that.
Your bottom line is correct: "Big or small we must as churches engage the culture and the neighbourhoods around us".
We talk about it a lot.
I don't believe we are succeeding.
Jack says:
December 8, 2009 - 9:20:PMGospel Fellowship Church, Steinbach
Manitoba Central
Let's talk about how we actually do make an impact on the world in which we live. It is unfair to say that it is Satan's tool for some people to work one-on-one, or that the only way to keep a church dynamic is to have massive crowds. Nor is it fair to say that God can not work in and through large crowds. Any way you cut it, it still comes down to how I will choose to live my life daily as a follower of Jesus where I am planted. It is really irrelevant whether I get my inspiration from a small or large setting.
Jacob says:
December 8, 2009 - 1:38:PMGospel Mennonite Church, Winnipeg
Manitoba Central
A big note of encouragement to all the great leaders at Leamington. We are thankful and excited for the growing desire God is placing in your hearts to reach your community for Christ. Keep your eyes on Jesus and lead on.
Stephen says:
December 8, 2009 - 9:02:AMLeamington EMMC
Ontario
I would argue with Allen Hirsch that Korea and parts of South America and Africa have had even more explosive growth in the last 100 years (as a percentage of the total population) then even China so I do not think the house church movement is the answer.
My understanding of Gibbons is that he is more 'multi-site' church than 'small church'. That would probably describe me as well. The church I pastored in Kuwait was 4500 people (which some would say is a mega-church) but there were no big buildings and our largest single congregation was only around 450 people.
Bottom line is that big or small we must as churches engage the culture and the neighbourhoods around us. I see some house churches doing this really well. I also think a church like Saddleback does that really well. The question for us is whether we are doing it well and, if not, what needs to change.
gerhard says:
December 7, 2009 - 8:39:PMLeamington EMMC
Ontario
AS FOR YOUR POINT NUMBER TWO:
THE BIGGEST MISTAKES WE MAKE ARE WHEN WE COMUNICATE ONE ON ONE , POINTING THE FINGER AT OURSELFE AS BEING FULL OF KNOWLEGE,START GOSSIPS, CREATE CONFUSSION, ETC. THAT IS HOW GROUPS LIKE (WACO TEXAS) START. THERE IS POWER IN SPEAKING SPIRIT FILLED MESSAGES TO A CROUD OF BELIEVERS WHICH CAN EASILY CONFIRM OR REFUTE THE MESSAGE BY TESTING THE MESSAGE AGAINST THE SCRIPTURES. I BELIEVE THAT (SATAN )TOOK WHAT WAS INTENDED FOR DEEPER SPIRITUAL DISCIPLESHIP, SUCH AS (SMALL GROUPS )AND ( ONE ON ONE)USED IT TO SPLIT UP MANY CONGREGATIONS, WE NEED THE BIG CHURCH TO KEEP US HUMBLE, SHOW US OUR SHORT COMINGS,AND TO GUIDE US BACK TO THE NARROW WAY. THE BIG CHURCH IS FOR THE SICK OF THE WORLD THAT NEED JESUS, TO COME AS THEIR LAST RESORT TO BE MINISTERED TO AND FOR SPIRITUAL HEALING. REMEMBER THE WELL POEPLE DONT NEED A DOCTOR, PAUL SAID THAT WE SHOULD BE BLAMELESS, WHAT BETTER WAY THAN TO BE TRANSPARENT TO A BIG CHURCH GROUP OF BELEIVERS, THAT CAN CONFIRM YOU AND REBUKE YOU WHEN WRONG. JESUS LAST WORDS WERE TO GO AND PREACH TO ALL THE WORLD AS FAST AS WE CAN,HE IS HELPING US WITH THE (HOLY SPIRIT)TO DO JUST THAT, AND WE LIVE IN THE DIGITAL ERA LETS USE IT FOR (GOD )IN THE FULLEST
WE CAN NEVER GO TO A SINGLE EXAMPLE OF THE PAST AND TRY TO COPY IT,REMEMBER WHO IS IN CONTROL NOT US IT IS(GODS KINGDOM) WE ARE ONLY WORKERS IN THE VINEJARDS TIME IS SHORT HARVEST IS GREAT!!!!!
Jacob says:
December 7, 2009 - 8:17:AMGospel Mennonite Church, Winnipeg
Manitoba Central
Speaking of the early church - Allen Hirsch in his book the "Forgotten Ways" says that the only other time or place where the church has had the kind of explosive growth as it did in the early church is the persecuted church in China.
I will let someone else jump in with the numbers and the "DNA" that might have contributed to.
John says:
December 5, 2009 - 8:03:PMLeamington EMMC
Ontario
Jacob says:
December 5, 2009 - 3:33:PMGospel Mennonite Church, Winnipeg
Manitoba Central
Some great food for thought comes from an article in the Summer 2008 issue of Leadership. If you go to their web page you can google the title of the article. "On the Verge" Gibbons understanding of the gospel led him to build a multi-ethnic mega church. And now it's leading him to build smaller churches he calls "verges".
He believes small is easier to reproduce, to adopt multiple forms, to go through leadership change. He believes small is the new big.
Lets keep talking and learning.
Michael says:
December 1, 2009 - 8:53:PMAylmer EMMC
Ontario
To answer your question, I am not interested in whatever option extends the duration of my "occupation". I am not a protectionist.
I am interested in the option that accomplishes the goal of making disciples. In my experience, larger churches struggle with disciple-making while they excel at churning out dormant, comfortable attendees whose lives look 98% the same as all of their non-believing neighbors. I know - I was one of them.
That may not be the case at your church, and if it's not, great!
The conference, like every conference dealing with emerging issues, is a reaction to the dormant, domesticated church of recent generations. Do they go too far? Yep - I think my notes on the conference reflect that. I thought some of it was pretty flakey.
But I understand why the reaction is happening, and I'm on board with the sentiment, if not all the ways it plays out.
I don't see how starting with the Gospel in our own neighborhoods is "re-inventing the wheel". In fact, it seems like a thoroughly biblical course of action that obviously very few of us are pursuing.
We can see this in the ethnic monoculture in all of our churches.
Terry says:
December 1, 2009 - 7:59:PMGlencross Mennonite Church
Manitoba South
Stephen says:
December 1, 2009 - 12:56:PMLeamington EMMC
Ontario
Again, my experience is that larger churches tend to have multiple staff and multiple services and are able to give a much higher percentage to missions that smaller churches. If the issue is finances than bigger is certainly much better.
I find it interesting that Michael is the one who asked this question - a specialized staff member of one of the larger EMMC churches. Generally smaller churches do not have the resources for support or specialized staff like youth or worship pastors. Doesn't your occupation in itself point to the need for bigger churches?
Coming back to the main point, "one to one" and "one to few" ministry is an essential part of any ministry. However, I find biblical and historical significance for the "one to many" approach. Can you imagine if Jonathon Edwards or John Wesley or DL Moody or the Apostle Paul had simply decided they didn't like big meetings?
Mega churches are not a North American or middle class invention. Most of the world's largest churches are in the developing world.
The conference for me highlighted a growing trend these days to try and reinvent the wheel when it comes to North American church planting. I have lived outside Canada for 12 years and have preached in a number of different countries and I have seen the church exploding through "traditional" church models. I think we need to be very careful not to throw the baby out with the bathwater. New isn't always better.
John says:
November 30, 2009 - 9:26:PMLeamington EMMC
Ontario
Terry says:
November 28, 2009 - 12:52:PMGlencross Mennonite Church
Manitoba South
Dave says:
November 26, 2009 - 7:15:PMGospel Fellowship Chapel, St. Thomas
Ontario
I have gone on record lately to say that I don't want to be work towards the mega church. It feels too mall-ish. I heard a someone say recently that there aren't many malls being built these days. Why is that? is it a cultural shift, does Wal-mart have too wide a selection? do people go to boutique shops only because they specialize better? and hit the niche market best. Maybe it's our NA culture that's shifting.
To wrap up, I think that the 'theology of place' has much to say about which strategy will work best. Let's call this study of location 'locology'.
Jacob says:
November 26, 2009 - 10:11:AMGospel Mennonite Church, Winnipeg
Manitoba Central
The program based church model seems to work best in "middle class neighborhoods" where we can afford the staffing and programming. We might need to explore different models for reaching into the most needy places. I just read that 2/3 of the world's human beings live in poverty, yet only 6% of mission workers actually minister as poor to the poor. John B Hayes goes on to say that if the good news were a marketable product like Coca-Cola someone in marketing would get fired. What model of church will serve us best in reaching and transforming the poor neighborhoods in our world?
Now on a lighter note let me add the humorous slogan of a small church with an attitude - "we're not growing ... but will criticize those that are".
Stephen says:
November 24, 2009 - 12:22:PMLeamington EMMC
Ontario
The early church met in homes but also met IN THE TEMPLE COURTS. I recall 3000 being added to that first church in a single day - big by any standard. In Ephesus Paul would use the lecture hall of Tyrannus (Acts 19:9) for meetings every day. Having been in Ephesus and seen the ruins, this was a BIG place. So why wasn't Paul into one-on-one or one-to-few?
The point of the parable of the farmer was not the size of his harvest but the pride associated with it. It is wrong to automatically assume the desire for bigger is always pride based. Would that mean the desire for smaller is jealousy driven?
Why bigger churches? They reach more people. The more chairs filled = the greater the potential for people to hear and respond. What I have seen in larger churches is the priciple of synergy - that 2 people fishing together can catch more than the sum of them fishing seperately. The larger the fire the greater the heat.
This does NOT mean that all churches should aspire to be large. God can use both the big and small. I do not hear big church pastors saying it is wrong to be small. So why should we be so quick to judge and curse the large ones?
Terry says:
November 23, 2009 - 8:54:PMGlencross Mennonite Church
Manitoba South
Jack says:
November 23, 2009 - 9:38:AMGospel Fellowship Church, Steinbach
Manitoba Central
While still holding a fair fit of sway, mega churches, often centered around one person who does most of the thinking for the masses is not the way of the future. Large churches that have an effective small group component will fair better, I think, but from what I see it is still quite easy to "hide" in mega-churches. One of the deep cries from our current culture is for belonging in community and I think the church can best meet that need by a serious focus on "true community in Christ" - which can only happen where individuals really matter.
There is good historical evidence that for at least the first century most Christian met in house churches and had a powerful impact on their times. So maybe our vision should be to go "back to the future."